Let’s get straight into this…
So, you basically need to roam around your city until you find a girl that you think you would like to talk to and then as you she her approach directly…
And when you have her attention by saying something similar to “Excuse me… ” then say:
“Sorry, could I please borrow your phone for a second please… ” whilst holding strong eye contact…
Depending on the effectiveness of your approach (see three points below), she may or may not hand over her phone, if she doesn’t just say thanks and walk away.
If she does, take the phone and enter your number and call it straight away (ensure your phone is on load), once your phone starts ringing take it out and say thank you to the girl and pass her phone back with a smirk.
The effectiveness of the how to get a girl’s number technique hinges almost solely on the three factors below, there is NO point in getting the girl’s number if you don’t create some sort of bond with the girl as she will just delete yours when she leaves and will not respond to your messages.
This exercise hinges almost solely on confidence, if a girl notices an ounce of uncertainty in your eyes she will sense the in-congruence between your thoughts, words and actions and it will weird her out. You have to be 100% certain this will work or it will NOT work.
So how do you get this unshakeable confidence?
The first time you do this will be a disaster, but no one will die, so try it anyway.
Then slowly you will get better and better and then the confidence will start to show as you build up successful reference experiences.
2. Eye Contact
Throughout the exercise you MUST hold cool and confident eye contact with the girl. This is where she will be subconsciously looking to check your confidence.
But be sure not to make the mistake of staring, if she breaks eye contact, you should too. Don’t look like a psychopath.
3. Qualify & Seed The Date
Once you have her number it is important that you do the following two things if you want to see her again:
Qualify – You must give her a reason for why you want her phone number, otherwise she will just assume you do this with each and every girl, which will drastically reduce the chance she will go on a date with you.
Seed The Date – She must know that you are going to ask her out on a date, otherwise, she will get your message asking her to do something and will think “why couldn’t her ask that to my face?”. Again be careful not to come across to desperate here and maybe just drop in “oh I’ll take you to X” or “we should do X”
Right, get out there and test your new skill, but remember, now you know how to get a girl’s number in under 5 minutes, use this skill ethically.