Month: November 2015

The Secret To Male Seduction

manYou may already know that some women have an X-Factor that most women don’t. These women are able to effortlessly command the attention of all those around them. They aren’t necessarily stunningly beautiful women but they have a quality about them that makes them alluring and enticing to say the least.

This quality is more than just confidence, confidence doesn’t sum it up. To be fair there isn’t really an adjective to summarize their magnetism. So you can’t aspire to be this one quality.

What these women are doing that given you are reading this article, you most probably aren’t is being their true selves.

These women aren’t living in fear, they aren’t following someone else’s lead or hoping someone will love them. They aren’t putting others before themselves, they believe they deserve happiness and great things and they don’t have a problem accepting them or feel surprised when good things occur in their lives.

These women have a positive energy. They believe in abundance, they feel they are worthy of good things and have value. They would never allow a man to treat them badly or anyone for that matter. Empowered women aren’t shackled with fear. They don’t always play by the rules, they break them and make their own.

They aren’t afraid to walk away from situations that aren’t bringing them happiness and the majority of their thoughts are happy ones.

Seductive women are confident because they have gratitude, they know that happiness breeds more happiness and they see life as their play pen. The world is what they create it and they will make sure they create the best possible environment to live in.

Making the transition from an average existence to a great one won’t happen in a day but it starts with confidence.

The first step to being seductive is gratitude and that is where we will start today.

Every day upon waking up or on the way to work or when you are feeling low think of 20 things you are grateful for. It seems like a lot of things to be grateful for but when you get going 20 things won’t be enough.

You need to make a conscious decision to be happy and that starts with not wanting things to make you happy but wanting what you have got.

It doesn’t matter if you say the same things over and over again every day. The purpose of this is the activity is practice. Recalibrating your outlook on life, especially if you are particularly depressed or negative will take a long time.

The path to getting what you want in your love life starts with loving what you have got. So be grateful.

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Why Should She Respect You If You Have Nothing To Offer

12In reality though the real reason why she does not respect you is because of this!

You have nothing to offer as far as getting your life together.

Yes getting yourself together for yourself so that they will notice you, crave your attention, be around you. When you got yourself together you feel better, look better and command respect.

Women like to talk smack and make you feel bad about your manliness but do not fall for this nonsense because they do want a man who acts like a man, does things like men and can handle himself in any situation without falling to their knees and giving up!

By nature women need to be with men and men need to be with women.

Women also want a man who has resources, which is why Rich Men always do better with the women than Poor Men. There is no turning this around as this is how Nature works. The one with the most resources gets to breed while the one who has no resources is left watching on the sidelines.

Do me the favor and stop rolling over like dogs in submission and have some dignity! You are a man so do not be ashamed to act like it.

Build your life first before you try running around chasing skirts all day.

Still it is extremely difficult to command respect from Modern Women today since the majority of their minds are so entrenched with Feminism that they are more confused now than they were back then.

No matter how young or old or the way you look. Your confidence and ambition will show women that you are the man they want to be with. You do not have to wear a funny hat and act like a dummy. All you need to do is be yourself and have confidence.

That is why women always dig the Alpha in the room! A cool and confident man who commands respect always makes them excited! The only way to gain respect is by taking the time to make your life better. Women can sense a man that has his life together. No woman wants a man that is weak and not confident in himself.

With so much Technology and Personal Development at your fingertips learning and gaining respect is ignored. So if you do not have anything in your life that makes you command respect then why should she respect you?

If you are overweight, sloppy and weak minded then why should she respect you?

If you do not have a job or are not progressing then why should she respect you?

If you have no motivation or ambition then why should she respect you?

Talking game is like going on a job interview. You have to convince her that you are the man she needs in her life. But if you have not anything I have talked about above then your chances of getting with her will be slim to none!

So instead of beating yourself up and wondering why should she respect you. You will only have to look within yourself to see and find the answer!

Finding Love How I Found Success At Last

dssOh my goodness. This was a life-changer that I learned in a workshop, the short course that changed the course of my life.

I met my love after 5 years of being single and feeling more and more lonely, till that fated evening when I found out what I really wanted in a partner. And soon enough, I was in a steady relationship, totally in love, and finally married. It is the second and last time, for good reasons, of course. Curious about how we met? If for you or someone you know, here is the exercise I learned in a special romance workshop. It worked, and we have now been married for over 7 years, together for over 14.

Step 1: Get a pen and paper, whiteboard, or notebook on your device, and write down the 10 qualities that are most important to you in a partner. And remember, this is to help you move forward, so no cheating! For example, “attractive, tall, green eyes, black hair, athletic” does not count as one quality but 5. And “kind, generous, loyal” is 3 qualities, not 1. Take your time writing down the 10 qualities. These are the 10 qualities that you want more than any others, so again, no cheating. Keep it to 10.

Step 2: Now, scan this list of 10 qualities that you have written down. Think about how you feel about these qualities. Then be very strong and let go of 5 of them. Yes, I know this can be hard, but do it anyway. There is a reason for that. This leaves you with 5 qualities that are the most important of all to you in a partner.

Step 3: OK, now for the really interesting part. Cut the list down to 3 qualities and no more. Take your time, you can experiment with it, think how you feel, and look at the list until you have whittled it down to 3 qualities. These are the qualities that are important for you in a partner. This focuses your attention, and it is said that we can usually only find a partner that satisfies 3 qualities that are important to us. For example, if it is “Honest, Loyal, and Black-haired”, then you know not to waste time on dishonest people (do they cheat on their tax, or tell lies in social groups in order to make themselves seem more interesting?), disloyal people (are they disloyal to their employer or cheated on their partner, for example?), or people with blond hair (because that would not keep your interest looks-wise long-term). Of course, these are just 3 qualities I plucked out of thin air with no prejudice to blond, red, brown, black, or bald-haired amazing partners but you get the idea.

Fear of Being Single and How to Overcome It

4tDo you ever fear of being single forever? This fear of being single is so widespread that in our day to day life someone or the other is either trying to find someone, or forget someone or deal with someone. The desire to be with someone and being loved is one of the most fundamental human needs. And when a person is afraid of being single, he has a nagging feeling that he is destined to be alone forever, or maybe he is full of flaws. But this is just a fear and not a reality. You must know that you are a worthy person and deserved to be loved. Don’t let fear of being single guide your life.

Start with being gentle with yourself…

There is an inner-voice in us that constantly analyses everything about our life. We engage in positive and negative self-talks that has an impact on our feelings. So when your inner voice says discouraging things such as, “I am so stupid”, “I am ugly”, “I always mess things up” and the like, your insecurity increases and you start believing that you are worthless. Be gentle with yourself. May be someone else made you believe you are unworthy but it does not matter what other say about you because you know the truth. Forgive yourself for mistakes that you have done and tell your inner voice to leave you alone. If you keep on focusing on your limitations, you will trick yourself into believing that no one wants to be with you.

Increase your value by having confidence in yourself. Confidence is attractive because if you believe you are valuable, so will others. So start increasing your confidence and self-esteem. If you come across as a person who is confident and love yourself you will be in peace with yourself. Study as much as you can on the subject and start practicing all that you have learned. Try new things, experiment and find out how much fun you can have with yourself. Meditate and create positive self-affirmations and you will begin to heal yourself from all the negativity around you.

Transform your thinking about the opposite sex

You may have bad experience with someone for which your belief about opposite sex has changed. You may believe that all men are jerks or all women are gold diggers. But the truth is there are still many good men and women out there waiting for true love. However if you hold these negative thoughts about the opposite sex, your fear of staying single will increase since you are constantly telling yourself that there is no good person left.

Today’s society has put tremendous pressure on us to be in a relationship and this is especially true for women. No matter how successful you are, you are forced to believe that you can’t be happy if you do not have someone in your life. This makes being single something like a failure. But the truth is that you are far from being a failure. If you want you could be in a relationship today but you want to wait or maybe you have taken time to heal yourself from a previous relationship.